Dear guys,
There are so many good guys out there and I have come to the conclusion that society is telling them what they have to do to "get" the girl. Society has told you that if you are a "bad boy" you will get the girl. Frankly we don't want a bad boy. We want someone who is kind and caring toward us and others. We want someone who loves us for who we are and doesn't try to change us. Someone who accepts the good, the bad, and the ugly and loves us anyway.
We want someone who makes us laugh. Life is really stressful and society puts a lot of pressure on women. We want a person who can make us laugh and help us to forget about all the pressure and stress. If you can make us laugh and I mean really laugh we will want to spend more time with you.
When you find an amazing girl put in the effort to get to know her! You can't fake this, we can tell. Trust me, quality girls know their worth and we won't waste their time with people who do not think we are worth the effort.
You don't need the cheesy and/or raunchy pick up lines to get our attention. Just talk to us (we like to talk). There is no need to get nervous around us, we are just a person. Tell us what you think and feel, we aren't a mind reader. You always hide your feelings from us, don't. We really like a guy who is not afraid to tell us how they feel. It is really attractive when a guy knows what they want and aren't afraid to tell us.
You are always looking for something you have in common with us. We greatly appreciate that but you don't have to have something in common with us just be willing to try things we enjoy and we will do the same. We genuinely just want someone who cares about us and wants to try new things with us.
You don't have to impress us. It's nice when you take us somewhere; however, sometimes we just want someone to stay home and watch movies with. We love hanging at home and just spending time together. We don't need fancy things, it's the simple things that mean the most to us.
Ultimately we just want someone who cares about us and can make us laugh, that's all we need.
Thanks,
Girls
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